Wife. Mom. Writer


My name is Heather and I'm a romantic. A dreamer. A wild woman. I have a fondness for all things sexy and wildish. Some call me a flibbertigibbet because of my passions but I believe we can have it all, each and every desire of our hearts.

I am not a fan of small talk. 

I love wine, dark chocolate, poetry, chilly mornings, indie movies, and conversations with those that make my heart quicken. I don't have all the answers. I'm still trying to feel my way into this big wild world. I've got a rebel softness that scares some people, including myself. I'm an introvert and highly sensitive person but I wear the label proudly. It's a gift.

I am not going to apologize. 

I'm married (19 years now) to a wonderful biker dude who still gives me butterflies. It's not been easy, no good thing ever is. We are passionate about keeping our romance alive, and sharing our little tidbits of secret messages along the way with anyone who cares to ask. 

I'm mama to three amazing and creative kiddos. (Cayla is 18, Hannah 16, and Isaiah, he's 14.) We homeschool and have from the very beginning. It's not been an easy journey for any of us, but it works. We like being that crazy family. Our home is a chaotic beauty.

I am not religious. 

I'm a spiritual person who believes in magic. I've spent time in the dark, cocooning, and have recently climbed out, ready to live this wild sexy life unapologetically. Seeking truth is my passion, and authenticity, my drug. I believe in dreaming big dreams and living sexy lives, I want to help other women take back their power and create their wild sexy lives.  

Lets get started!